[analysis men/women] GUYS' DELUSIONS

that's the so-called "truth" about kind boys and bad boys in Korea
kind guys don't have popularity.
bad guys are super popular.
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People think like that right?
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but that's bulls*t.

have you ever heard of the saying "a position one takes, makes him stand out"?

that's the truth.

it's not true that bad guys are popular.
it's because they're popular that guys become bad.
why? because there's a huge ocean of women in front of you,
so that even if one leaves, you wouldn't even care anymore.
you just have to meet someone else and it's cleared.
because you're popular with girls, not the other way around.

the same goes for the opposite wayㅋㅋㅋㅋ
it's not because guys are kind that they're not popular,
It's because they're not popular that they have no choice but to be kind.
why? because if you don't do it, you can't even think about meeting girls ㅋㅋ
there's no other solutionsㅋㅋㅋㅋ
they're just forced to be nice

girls are influenced too, because they look at guys whether they're popular or not, 
but we also look at their charms.
if guys hurt us, it's a minus
but the majority of girls will prefer kind guys.
do you really think that we would fall for douchebags?
of course notㅋㅋㅋㅋ

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26남 |2015.03.27 02:30

you really don't know anything ㅋㅋit's simply the truth that bad guys are popular and kind guys are rejects.  It doesn't mean that bad guys are bast*rd and it doesn't mean that kind guys are religious gentle and humane people. It's just a common saying. The bad guys will not reject girls straightforwardly so girls will always try to run after them, but if you're too straightforward, you won't have any popularity. Kind guys just don't use their sense, they're like pabos, and they don't have witty charms. It's also false to say that bad guys cannot treat their lovers well.

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ㅇㅇ |2015.03.28 00:03

sorry but... let's be real..I don't know for bad guys but, the kind guys.. we're not the kind guys you expect us to be.when we go on blind dates and we meet other girls, they're always assuming that we're kind and say  "I know you're a kind guy but sorry you're not my type"  they made me think like being not charming equals kind. But I'm not dissing females, I'm saying this out of courtesy. But there are also unexpectedly a lot of kind guys who are popular among girls too. it's not true that girls only like bad guys. They really like friendly guys too. People like.. Eric Nam? There are a lot of girls who doesn't find him handsome.. But because of his personality, they fall for him. That's why a lot of girls are after him. I'm speaking on the behalf of kind guys. most of them got married before their 30's.If you're a kind guy and you still don't have a girlfriend, maybe it means that you're not even kind to start with.

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판남 |2015.03.27 01:25

makes sense.

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