[twenties stories] I DON’T THINK THAT I’LL GET A BOYFRIEND IN THIS LIFE

I’m a 26 years old woman who went to all-girls middle school, high school and university.

I’ve never dated anyone in these 26 years of my life….

Yeah, I’m a motae-solo

The others are all dating but I don’t think that I have the skills to date.

I’ve never experienced an ‘uniform-love’ (T/N: dating when you’re in school – students wear uniforms)

My face isn’t pretty and I’m short tooㅠㅠ

I don’t think that I can ever experience dating.

I’m still fine with it now but I’m worried that I’ll regret later on.

I’ve never even tried to meet someone and I just put up a wall all the time.

I thought that it was just me acting usual, but thinking about it later, I realized that I put up a wall a lot of times.

As soon as a “some” (T/N: when something’s going on/flirting stage) starts, I deny it right away.

So my some’s just end secretly like thatㅠㅠ

I thought to myself if I was weird or if I was just suited to not date…

So then, I started to think of what would happen if I date this or that person. Will that person be pitiful? Why would someone like someone like me? Isn’t it weird that I feel sorry for him?

Also there’s no one I’m close with at the place where I workㅠㅠ

The people I’m talking with are all women. But even so it’s only on a business-level.

If this continues, I’ll never be able to experience the relationships that others are living in.

I’m scared since your 20’s are like the deadline for dating.

For those who read this and who are weirded out, I’m sorry.

I’ve just been restless because I just thought about it

 

These pictures are the ‘uniform-love’ that I wasn’t able to have

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92 |2017.04.25 05:25 신고하기

The answer is inside your post. You’re the one putting up a wall. You wrote that you were short and that you’re not pretty so do you think that the guys would have a reason to pierce through that wall and date you?? You should remove that wall or try to approach guys… you should choose among the two

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ㅇㅇ |2017.04.24 23:39 신고하기

Just reading your title obviously shows that you only have high standardsㅋ that’s why you’re a motae-solo. Just continue living as a motae-soloㅋㅋㅋㅋ

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ㅇㅇ |2017.04.25 06:42 신고하기

I’m envious that you can even put a wall against other people.. I’m opening myself wide to others and I still can’t date

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ㅇ |2017.04.25 12:02 신고하기

What’s up with the comments below?.. it’s so scary nowadays.. the criticisms are no joke… you guys must be so confident, extrovert and have all inherited good genes right..

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ㅇㅇ |2017.04.25 14:20 신고하기

This unnie will give you an advice. Usually, the guys won’t chase after a girl who puts up a wall. Also, you’re not likely to love any guys who will penetrate your wall. You don’t have any fated person around you. But you don’t HAVE to meet a guy and start a family. First of all, you should work on your confidence. I don’t think that you even know who you are as a person.

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ㅇㅇ |2017.04.25 07:49 신고하기

Worst things are those girls who are ugly, but have high standards

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ㅋㅋ |2017.04.25 12:37 신고하기

Don’t start forcing yourself to meet guys, you have to start learning how to be confident and love yourself.

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