[enter-talk] WHAT DO YOU THINK OF IDOLS DATING?

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Vote up - They earn money and can put food on the table because of the fans' love, so they can't date
Vote down - Idols can't even date during the prettiest years of their lives, it's a sad thing

To be honest, I'm also someone who fangirls on idols so when their dating news break out, I can understand their rationale but I still feel a bit sad. But at the same time, my bias is a celebrity whose ultimate goal is to be an artist so I don't think that you should use the "he's feeding off fan's love" as a logic. Of course, there are idols whose goal is to receive love and attention from the the public but I don't think that they can get up there with this kind of mentality.

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ㅇㅇ |2019.01.26 20:07 신고하기

We spend on idols because of their skills, stages and charisma no? do you guys have to take ownership over these idols' personal lives too? If they are good at doing their job and treat the fans nicely, and that they cement their position as a celebrity after 4-5 years and then start dating, of course that would be the ideal case. And it's also good for your to love your bias but please don't think that you have ownership over them. Off stage, they are their own person and also have a family, siblings and friends. They might also have boyfriends and girlfriends just like the rest of us. It's not like idols are taking the fans' money with nothing in exchange. So please fangirl with restraint and don't take ownership over them. Let's all share

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ㅇㅇ |2019.01.26 14:53 신고하기

I seriously think that if people want to be celebrities, they have to give up on dating life. Especially idols who live off the fans' love. If you learned that your bias was dating, you won't be able to fangirl on him

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ㅇㅇ |2019.01.26 19:29 신고하기

The way you love your dog, the way you love your partner, the way you love your friends, the way you love your family, they are all different. So the way fans love their bias should also be different from loving a boyfriend/girlfriend. How are they the same? Also, if you think that you would spend that much money on your lover, they I think that you should stop spending on your bias... Honestly speaking, the kids who spend that much money on their real life partners and who end up breaking up after would also think that all of it was just a waste of money

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