1. They don't waste people's feelings
People with a strong mentality don't manipulate/sway other people and don't get manipulated/swayed. They wouldn't have thoughts like "my boss is doing this to annoy me" because they're able to control their emotions.
2. They don't get uncomfortable over situations that are beyond their control
People with a strong mentality aren't uncomfortable when it comes to situations that have already unfolded. Instead, they think about what they can do once the situation has unfold. They focus on what they can control in their lives. They can control their mindset and attitude towards the situation
3. They don't blame others for what is happening in their own environment
People with a strong mentality doesn't waste time blaming others or lamenting on what is happening in their own environment. Instead, they accept that their lives is simply not an easy one and that there is unfairness that exists.
4. They aren't scared of change
People with a strong mentality don't try to escape from change.
Rather than feeling uneasy, they try to find the positive in the change and deal with the situation with composure.
They are able to recognize that change is inevitable and believe they're able to adapt to the change
5. They don't try hard to please others
People with a strong mentality don't try hard to make others happy. And they have the courage to say what needs to be said. Even so, they're still able to make an effort to treat people amicably and warmly.
6. They don't try to avoid the calculated risk
People with a strong mentality don't try things rashly or prematurely. They will consider all the risk associated with something, and don't mind taking them into consideration.
Before making a big decision, they will spend time calculating the risks VS the benefits of doing it.
They will consider all alternatives.
7. They're freed from the past
People with a strong mentality don't waste time clinging onto the past.
They acknowledge what has happened in the past, and learn a lesson from it.
And they don't delude themselves with stuff from the past either. They live in the present and plan for the future.
8. They don't give up after 1 failure
People with a strong mentality don't give up at the first try.
Instead, they will take it as an opportunity to improve and grow. They will try until they're able to do it.
9. They don't repeat the same mistake twice
People with a strong mentality take ownership of their actions and learn something new from their past mistakes.
Furthermore, they don't repeat the same mistake twice. Instead, they make an effort to better themselves the next time.
10. They don't envy other people's success
People with a strong mentality encourage and cheer for others' success and are able to acknowledge it.
They're not jealous when someone else achieves a bigger success than them.
Furthermore, they acknowledge that there are no shortcuts to success, but make an effort to find an opportunity to succeed.
11. They don't expect the world to give them anything
People with a strong mentality don't think that the world owes them anything.
Instead, they try to find ways to make their own strength useful to the world.
12. They don't waste time when they're alone
People with a strong mentality don't fear going through things/endure things alone.
They don't spend time doing unproductive things, instead they will try to be productive.
They're able to enjoy the time they spend alone.
13. They don't expect immediate results
People with a strong mentality don't expect anything immediate to realize after they've done something.
They recognize that change needs time. But they do everything they can to bring the change.
original post: here
(t/n: FIY, Koreans use the "ㅅ" a lot when they enjoy something, same thing as saying "nice", most comments are saying "ㅅ" so we'll try translating the longer ones)
1. My mentality is like glass ㅜ
2. Yup can't do that~
3. So I can't even be annoyed at my boss? ㅠ
4. Looks like my mentality is f*cking glass...
5. Shouldn't these people be called saints...??ㅋ
6. I feel like if I spend this much effort living like that, I'll end up with a mental disease
7. I know someone around me who is very close to living like this, they indeed have a strong mentality but they have no emotions at allㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ However, they're very comfortable with themselves
8. I've always thought that my mentality was like iron, but I don't know anymore...
9. It kinda feels like reading this is making my mentality stronger!!!
10. Wow laying out facts like that made me realize I'm the complete oppositeㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ As expected I'm not going anywhere with my glass mentality
11. Yah I'm the total oppositeㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ Is it even possible to live like this? ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ
12. What the, I thought the post was talking about meㅋㅋㅋ So I do have a strong mentality
I can acknowledge all theseㅋㅋㅋ
13. I failed from #1
14. My mentality is quite strong and I'm rather optimistic but the #12 is so hardㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ Being unproductive alone is....jjang
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