I'm friends with my crush and when we're bored at night, we text each other through FB messenger (I can't share it). I really like my crush but we had a conversation about homosexuals since our homework was on this topic.
I respect gay people and to be honest, I'm still not fully aware of my sexuality and thought for a while if I was bi so I don't hate them.
But my crush asked me what I thought about gay people and I responded him honestly. I told him that I'm fine with them as long as they don't go overboard with their skinship in public, and that I respect them.
And he asked me carefully "if I'm gay, what would you think of me?" and it startled me on the moment so I replied "why are you asking me? Are you gay?" and that's when he told me he was gay. I told you awhile ago that I respected gay people but I don't know what to think now that my crush is gay... I liked him for so long but since he's gay, he might have never cared for meㅠㅠ It was such a wake up call... I've liked him for years and it makes me sad that he's gay...
Seriously, what should I do?ㅠㅠㅠㅠㅠ
I respect gay people and to be honest, I'm still not fully aware of my sexuality and thought for a while if I was bi so I don't hate them.
But my crush asked me what I thought about gay people and I responded him honestly. I told him that I'm fine with them as long as they don't go overboard with their skinship in public, and that I respect them.
And he asked me carefully "if I'm gay, what would you think of me?" and it startled me on the moment so I replied "why are you asking me? Are you gay?" and that's when he told me he was gay. I told you awhile ago that I respected gay people but I don't know what to think now that my crush is gay... I liked him for so long but since he's gay, he might have never cared for meㅠㅠ It was such a wake up call... I've liked him for years and it makes me sad that he's gay...
Seriously, what should I do?ㅠㅠㅠㅠㅠ
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- ㅇㅇ 2016.11.07 11:46
- Find strength...!! Just think that you've gained a genuine friend for your whole life❣
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- ㅇㅇ 2016.11.07 21:28
- It must have been hard for him to tell you.. he must have trusted you a lot so your friendship must be really strong. Think of this positively and fighting
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- ㅇㅇ 2016.11.07 01:46
- My crush was gay too.... At first I didn't believe it and I thought that he did that to separate himself from me but when I thought about it seriously, I understood. He was able to share his concerns with me so we became even closer. I met with his boyfriend and the three of us are super close now even though my heart was torn....ㅎOP fighting !
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