Monday, March 27, 2017


It’s not to be point that it worries me but it’s like the title says,
My friend is showing off her sex appeal to my boyfriend, so how can I make her stop?
I want some wise advice so I’m writing this.

I’m a woman in my late twenties.
Yesterday, I met with a friend I must see once or twice per year and we had a dinner date together.
We were eating pizza and we were also drinking beer togetherㅋㅋㅋ
Both of us were getting excited so we decided to go to a makkeolli (T/N: Korean rice wine) placeㅋㅋ
Usually, we just eat dinner together and then part our ways and my boyfriend comes pick me up to bring me home but this time, I randomly suggested to go drink makkeolli, so my boyfriend just ended up tagging alongㅋㅋㅋ
So the three of us went to drink makgeolli while having chicken stew.
I’m not a good drinker since I’m only an office worker, so I was drinking moderately,
But my friend is a manager so she can drink pretty wellㅋㅋㅋ

So my friend was drinking a lot and became a bit tipsy. And suddenly she looked at us and said that we didn’t match each otherㅋㅋㅋ
She said that my boyfriend was handsome but that I was too average

My boyfriend is 1 year younger than me.
To be honest, his face looks manly rather than handsome.
When he was young, he used to be an athlete so he’s pretty tall and his body is niceㅋㅋㅋ
(But contrarily to his looks, he’s rather timidㅋㅋㅋㅋ)

Usually, we just joke and swear at each other for funㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ but this time, she didn’t sound like she was joking. She even said that her boyfriend looked f*cking average and started to laugh.
But after that, she kept saying how my boyfriend was good looking and how he was “her style”.
She  kept asking him to drink with her (without asking me) and be like “one shot~~”.
At first, she was just under the influence of alcohol and was babbling around but it slowly became worse and worse.
I started to not feel well so I was like “ya, cut it downㅋㅋㅋ it’s getting boring and late so let’s just go home”
So we just went home after thatㅋㅋ

But today…. My boyfriend called around noon and he told something shockingㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ

Yesterday, I left my seat 3 times.
2 times to go pick up calls and 1 time to go to the washrooms.

At first, when I went to pick up my call, nothing happened.

But the second time I went out to pick up my call, I was taking a long time.
So my friend did thisㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ
She told him that because her chest was too heavy, she has to put them on the tableㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ my friend does have a bigger chest than the average peopleㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ
My boyfriend just thought that she must have been very drunkㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ;;; so he said that he will go to the washrooms too and was leaving his seat butㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ
My friend said “so you hate chest stories? Then which part of the body do you like?”ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ what the f*ckㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ
My boyfriend didn’t reply her and just went to the washrooms. While he was in the washrooms, I came back and she acted like nothing happened so I didn’t know anythingㅋㅋ

When I later left to the washrooms, ㅋㅋㅋㅋ
She was still babbling around my boyfriend so I'm not sure what she said.
My boyfriend was feeling uneasy so he didn't say anything and was just on his phone.
He then asked her "so let's just drink this and go?"
and my friend said ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ
"No? Just take XX (OP) home and come back"
She said thatㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ
I'm still dumbfoundedㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ

To be honest, I was texting with my friend and saying how next time, she just shouldn't drink at all.
I was on my way out and texted her first.
My friend woke up late so she only replied me at around 10AM and she was acting like nothing happenedㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ
But my boyfriend told me that story in the afternoon
so I'm still speechless nowㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ

Is she pretending like she doesn't remember or does she actually not remember?

No matter what, what happened happened 
I was so mad and I felt betrayed and I don't think that we can stay friends anymoreㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ
Should I ask her about it first? Or should I not confront her and let it pass?

I'm so mad that I can't help but laugh about itㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ
Image result for drinking korea
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ㅋㅋㅋㅋ |2017.03.27 17:29 신고하기
You should properly ask your friend about thisㅋㅋTell her "You were drunk and was talking about your big chest to my boyfriend and put it on the table, you even told him to ditch me and come back by himself?ㅋㅋ My boyfriend was totally scaredㅋㅋㅋHe said that he can't see you anymore because he's too scared"ㅋㅋ

팩폭 |2017.03.27 17:01 신고하기
You should tell this to everyone you know. So when they meet with her, they will tell their male friends to be careful. She talked about her heavy chest and put it on the table. OP-ah you're just letting other people know about this b*tch. Cut your relationship, but before let other people know about her

ㅇㄱㅇ |2017.03.27 16:45 신고하기
What do you want to ask her? You should send her something like this "I heard everything that happened yesterday from my boyfriend. And our friendship ended since then. I didn't know that you were a crazy b*tch like this."