[teens stories] IS THERE ANYONE WHO LIKES TO BE ALONE LIKE ME?

Up until last year I liked talking with others, was always with friends and had good relationships with everyone.

But at some point, I just was too lazy to keep up with my relationships. I didn’t even want to attract attention anymore and I was tired of hiding my personality so I just naturally stopped keeping my promise to meet with others.

Now that it has been a while since I’ve been alone, my mind has become way more at peace and quiet.

I’ve never tried eating out alone but I’ve been to coffee shops alone and went to shop alone too.

Now that I’ve tried these things alone, it’s pretty alright.

First of all, I don’t attract anyone’s attention which is way more comfortable.

One of my close friend told my mom “can XX stop being alone by herself? She should come out with us a bit” ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ

I like to take pictures when I'm alone

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ㅇㅇ |2017.11.15 16:45 신고하기

I’ve always been alone. I’m jealous that your friend showed concern for you to your mom

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ㅋㅋ |2017.11.15 16:50 신고하기

I’m 33 y.o. and if I knew that being alone would’ve been this comfortable, I wouldn’t have tried so hard during my middle and high school… at that time, I thought that having no friends meant that the whole world was collapsing around you… the time has changed and there are lots of kids who play by themselves now. It’s definitely not weird to hang out alone and I’d rather be comfortable by myself so there’s no need for me to make friends…. Seriously, your life is successful if you meet 1,2 people that mesh well with you

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라떼 |2017.11.15 16:46 신고하기

I’m 30 y.o… I started to be alone since I started university and it feels so nice. I went to the karaoke, shopping, concerts, restaurants, etc. alone…. It’s seriously comfortable to be alone…. The good thing about shopping alone is that when you go with your friends, you have to eat out with them too and be attentive to your friends… I’m married now and have 2 kids… but I still go shopping and go to cafes alone to work… I think that alone time allows you to destress in silence ㅎㅎㅎㅎ

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ㅇㅇ |2017.11.15 17:02 신고하기

There are two types of people. There are people who get stressed when they are with other people. These type of people can only destress when they are alone in order to recharge their energy. The opposite are those who get their energy from meeting others. They destress when they are with people that match with them.

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ㅇㅇ |2017.11.15 17:19 신고하기

But I’m so used to being alone now that it’s becoming hard for me to get close to anyone ㅠㅠ

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